Practice Eight – Making Better Choices – The Choice Process!
Making Better Choices - The Choice Process!
Dr. William Glasser, author of The Choice Theory, is quoted as saying,
“Students cannot be coerced to learn, nor can they be forced to behave in a certain manner. The choice of how to behave is just that, "a choice." What education needs to do is to teach students how to make better choices.”
Choice is a foundational link between general decision-making, goal setting, problem-solving and conflict resolution. The decision-making process can be taught and should motivate, challenge, and inspire critical thinking.
The C.R.O.S.S. ROADS ™ Decision-making Process is a tool that addresses the concept of teaching students to make better choices.
- Puts responsibility in the hands of the individual.
- Guides an individual through five steps towards making thoughtful informed decisions and achieving results through personal planned effort.
- Builds constant evaluation and revision skills reinforcing mistakes are okay, and simply learning opportunities resulting in growth.
“We almost always have choices, and the better the choice, the more we will be in control of our lives.” Dr. William Glasser
The C.R.O.S.S.ROADS™ choice process detailed here may be used for:
- General decision-making
- Goal setting
- Conflict resolution
It was originally created, just as Glasser advised, for use as a tool to help students make better choices in conflict resolution and problem-solving situations in a school setting. It was so successful that there was a 56% reduction in disciplinary referrals over a 2 year period. Added as a strategy after the implementation of Great Expectations in a second school setting, disciplinary referrals became all but non-existent. The students became the problem-solvers.
The five steps in the C.R.O.S.S. ROADS ™ Decision-making Process are:
(printable C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Process Poster)
C - Choice - What is the choice being made?
R - Reality - What is happening now? What would I like to happen?
O - Options - What are some choice options I might try? What options have I tried so far? What are the benefits/pitfalls of these options?
S - Select Option/s and Plan!
What specific personal effort is necessary to make my choice option/s happen?
a. Who and/or what are needed to make it happen?
b. What is the timeline?
S - Start Over - Evaluate results of choice and use process to revise as needed.
In an educational setting the process may be put together with school Creeds ,
the Eight Expectations, and Life Principles to form the guidelines for making positive choices.
The process may be used verbally at any time or place, quickly running through the questions to focus on the particular need. Having witnessed the five steps being used effectively in situations such as two students caught running down the hall, altercations during recess, disruptions in a classroom, goal setting for professional development, or at an administrative meeting where procedural decisions were being made, the process works. Participating in an individual or collaborative effort, those involved take ownership and responsibility for the choice, the actions and the outcome.
Verbally running through the steps is more than adequate in the majority of situations. At other times the worksheets and forms aid in giving a structured outline for the details of the process. For example with conflict resolution it is particularly useful to give the participants a place to write down the facts and think through the possible solutions. One particular sixth grade student who spent too much time being sent to the office for class disruption first of all identified what she was doing and the consequences, and then came up with ideas for changing her behavior. Instead of a “This is what you’re going to do!” from a teacher or administrator, it was “This is what I’m going to do!” from the student.
Index of C.R.O.S.S.ROADS ™ Choice documents:
- C.R.O.S.S. ROADS ™ Decision-making Process - Explanation of the 5 step decision-making process.
- Example of EX 1 Decision-making Process Worksheet - student works out solution to being late to school and class
- C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Decision-making Process Worksheet with emoji - This document is generic and may be used for general decision-making, goal setting, conflict resolution, and problem-solving.
- C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Simplified Decision-making Process Worksheet - In this document all of the components of the expanded version have been simplified and emoji symbols have been added for each step. It uses ‘IF’ , ‘THEN’ to consider consequences for each option.
- C.R.O.S.S.ROADS General Decision-making Elementary Example 1 - Uses making a choice about whether to take a ball to school
- C.R.O.S.S.ROADS General Decision-making Example 2 - Uses making a choice about whether to do cross country as a means of getting in shape for track
- Simplified Goal Setting Worksheet- A simplified goal setting form
- C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Goal Setting Worksheet - This document goes through the process in more detail and has the individual or group considering the consequences of each choice option.
- Choice C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Planning Worksheet - Use this document for detailed planning on the personal effort necessary to carry out a choice.
- Goal Setting Planning Sheet - This document is specifically for goal setting.
- Goal Progress Worksheet - This document is for the evaluation of progress and minimal revision of the goal setting plan.
- Complete set of Goal Setting Process Explanation, Forms and Examples for all grade levels - includes educator goal examples for the implementation of this practice
FOR A COMPLETE SET OF THE CHOICE C.R.O.S.S.ROADS MATERIALS SEE:
- The C.R.O.S.S.ROADS CHOICE Directory - Complete set of CHOICE materials for implementation of the five step C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Choice process including ‘How to Introduce’, student and educator examples using the process in goal setting, conflict resolution, problem-solving, and general decision-making, posters, task cards, etc.
CHOICE C.R.O.S.S.ROADS RESOURCES:
- Choice C.R.O.S.S.ROADS poetry and literature - also includes strategies
- Choices Rap poster - offers 10 conflict resolution choices
- Choice Creed poster
- “At the Crossroads” poster and poem
- Quotes about Choice – Resource Sheet of 10 quotes and printable posters
- CHOICE C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Process Poster - This poster ties emoji symbols to each step of the C.R.O.S.S. process and makes an quick, easy-to-use reference and visual reminder.
- Neck Up Check Up Poster
- Eight Expectations Poster
- Eight Expectations Poster in Spanish
- Five Finger C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Chant with color cues
- Five Finger C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Chant with emoji cues
- Jar of Rocks Activity - Activity for analyzing and prioritizing options for decision-making.
- Assignment Data Log – Printable log sheet
- Progress Chart - chart academic progress with bar graph
- 4x4 Task Cards:
- 4x4 C.R.O.S.S.ROADS Process Task Cards - a convenient easy to carry reference tool for verbally using the process in any situation.
- 4x4 Choice Rap
- 4x4 Choice Creed
- 4x4 Neck Up Check Up
- 4x4 Eight Expectations
- 4x4 Problem-Solving Expectations
- 4x4 Three Questions
- 4x4 CHOICE CROSSROADS Sign Language and Emoji Flash Cards - Carry and practice signing during wait times.
- Digital Downloads:
- In English:
- In Spanish: Different borders offered in each set
- Eight Expectations Song
- Desert Pete song by the Kingston Trio - 2:43 min. - Song presents Desert Pete’s problem and his choices to solve it. Desert Pete Lyrics
- Great Expectation Songs - Includes:
- Eight Expectations Song
- Life Principle Song
- Hand’y Curriculum Song
- All of Eight Expectations and Expanded Life Principles have video resources.
- Pass it On Inspirational Story videos - 1 min. or less video vignettes that can be used for examining our choices and brief discussions. They are about different character traits, but all have a point when choice is a factor.
- “The Umpire” video 59 sec.
Building a Practically Useful Theory of Goal Setting and Task Motivation
Edwin A. Locke University of Maryland Gary P. Latham University of Toronto
Source: Summary of Recent Goals Research(PDF here: Gail Matthews Written Goal Study Dominican University, by Gail Matthews, Ph.D., Dominican University
Goal Progress and Happiness - article in Psychology Today by Timothy A Pychyl Ph.D.
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